Mother's Day.
As a child I always enjoyed showing my mother how much I loved her. As a teenager I used it as a way to put aside whatever irritation I was feeling with her. As an adult I use it to reconnect with her and recognize just how amazing of a woman, mother, minister and person she is.
I also have watched my sister fight through incredible odds as a mother - in so many different ways. And when I say fight, I mean it. Nothing has ever been easy for her, and she's done her best - even when she didn't know what her best was - to care for her children. I have learned from her what it can mean to push through struggles in order to finally find the life you always wanted to provide for your children.
Now that I am a mother, I find Mother's Day takes on a whole new meaning. I look at this day and I say, "Wow... I'm so glad this day exists." It feels nice to know that on this one day, millions of mothers are being recognized, loved, supported and showered with sweet little handprint crafts. I'm not saying I don't feel recognized, loved, or supported as a mother in general, but being a mother is hard, hard work and it's nice to know there is a day set aside for those who do this work.
I also understand the pain many feel on this day. I know that there are many who have lost their own mothers, those who have lost children, those who have been longing for a child of their own. I hold a special place in my heart for them today. It cannot be easy.
While I celebrate the joyous responsibility of motherhood, I think about what I want for my children. There are so many things. Most of them huge, almost unattainable goals - a world where the rights of the little man outweigh the rights of the big corporation - a world where protecting the earth is a concern for all, a world where people can feel safe, where we choose love over hate, and a world where no one would bat an eye at an openly gay man being drafted into the NFL.
I also wish for fulfilling relationships, confidence, strength to do what is right even in the face of adversity, some sweet pets to share their journey, and as many trips to Disney World as I can afford to give them.
When I see what I wish for them, I see just how much I, as a mother, play a role in all of that. I can help them on the path to those personal goals. And I can do my part to work for the world I hope they can grow up in.
Being a mother is no small thing. It can be stressful, exhausting, frustrating, confusing and angering. It is always beautiful, incredible, amazing, rewarding and full of a love that has no way to describe it other than one simple word:
Mom.
Happy Mother's Day to all of you beautiful, strong women out there. Enjoy it.